Monday, February 5, 2007

L O V E

I watched Hitch on HBO this afternoon.

It's 1 of those love shows that makes you go "Hmm.. I should have seized that opportunity when I had it" or "I should have given him/her another chance"...

In my opinion, I really think that there's no definition to what 'love' is. No one could ever plan on falling in love with a particular person and even dictate how it will be. Uh-huh, definitely not! BUT You can learn how to love a person, as you can never force yourself to love a person.

I had a crush on this guy back in college days. And everything seemed so perfect when I found out from friends that he felt the same. One fine day, he finally asked me out on a date. Most of our friends were talking about what a cute couple we'll make and that made me even more nervous prior to our date.So nervous that on our date, things went the other direction... we didn't have much to talk about! As much as I would love for things to turn out perfect, it didn't. Both of us were the shy and kinda quiet type that I think the moisquitos around us (we went for some outdoor thingy) made more noise! And it was a relieve when we met up with his bestfriend who has loads to talk about, to laugh about, to be silly around with etc. And well, after few months, I ended up falling in love with his bestfriend instead!

I guess the moral of the story is that Love comes when you least expect it - You just can't control love. But what you can control is your will to
learn to love everybit about the person you fell in love with
Hmm.. look at me, am giving lecture about Love like a granny.. and I'm not even married yet!

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